This girl on Tumblr (who didn't want her post published) asked me "You have a boyfriend right? You seem to trust him a lot from what i've read, how do you not get jealous or paranoid about all the girls he hangs out it? Do you not care that much for him?"
I think I just stared at the message trying to figure out the right way to answer this without yelling at her for not caring.
I guess it just comes down to trust I said. I can forgive people that has hurt me or done me wrong in the past. It's trust that I need. I can assure you when I go on his Facebook I'm not right away going gahh go away but it's his life as well. He can be friends with whoever he wants to be, I'm sure they are nice girls. He's told me he finds other girls attractive but he'd never do anything about it, same goes for me. I'd never cheat on him, he's pretty much said the same about me. Though we both know there is a .1% chance something could but in a sane mind we'd never.
I trust him completely and I guess that's enough to justify that I care for him.
Honestly, I summed up saying: I wouldn't be with him if I didn't trust him, if I didn't care for him. No one knows how long relationships will last i've gone from a month relationship to a seven one. We've got to enjoy the company and time with them, that we have now. Being paranoid and jealous will only cause tension and friction between both of you. I care for him, I do but there isn't words that can exactly summarise it because I'm still trying to figure it out myself.
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So I guess with all things you want to know a little about me then? Sorry to dissapoint you but that's going to have to come later. Right now I'm a little busy to talk about my life but hey look around, read a bit, you might learn something about me you didn't know before.
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